TBT–The R Word Wake-up

This Throw Back Thursday post was originally published on October 25, 2012.

Last night I had dinner out (yeah me, no kids!) with a very good friend of mine. We talked about how incensed I was over Ann Coulter’s remarks. It was obvious from the amount of Facebook posts I had done over the past 24 hours that I was more than a little irritated.

My friend was appalled, even though she tends to be a Coulter fan. She told me she never would have thought anything of the remark, had she not known and loved Boo. I explained how distressing it was that some day I would have to talk with my older daughter to explain that her sister is not retarded and what the difference betweent that horrid word and intellectual disability actually mean. My friend completely agreed that Ann Coulter was completely out of line and out of control with her repeated insults.

I expressed my fear that one day her sister would look at Boo and not see beautiful. My friend listened and agreed. As we were leaving she said something inconsequential and we laughed. Then she said, I cannot believe I could be so retarded.

My heart dropped.

Her expression got a deer in the headlights look. Her mouth dropped open and she said:

I never realized how often I might use that word and not even realize it.

Words have power.

On the Love That Max page yesterday some one commented that all the outraged parents were crybabies. I replied, no we are advocates. Until you know a child like Boo, until you are confronted with the fears, tears, joy and laughter you have no idea how powerful the word can be.

So I encourage all of us to have an open dialogue with our friends and family. Those, who unlike Ann Coulter, matter to us. They might not know they are breaking your heart.

Until you tell them.

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3 thoughts on “TBT–The R Word Wake-up

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  2. Cheryl Wright

    I can’t stand Ann Coulter! That word (the “R” word) is often used in the vocabulary of many. I am glad you wrote this blog post because I do think a lot of people don’t realize what they are saying.

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    1. firebailey Post author

      Thanks, Cheryl. I have family members that think the words she spews is gospel. Yet they also maintain she uses words deliberately to garner attention for whatever cause (or non cause) she is elevating. And that makes my point to them, that she used the word in describing our President in a deliberate fashion. That makes her “crime” so much worse. What was more difficult was her steadfast refusal to apologize or learn from the instance.

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